I FAILED MY DRIVER’S TEST
I smiled as I recalled an incident that occurred when I was
just 16 years old. Having obtained my learner’s
permit, I enrolled in the Driver’s Education Course at my alma mater, Monessen
High School. The course was taught by one of my football coaches,
the late Mr. Andy Yartin. After several months of intensive practice
on the road, he felt I was well prepared to take my driver’s test so I could
become a full-fledged and licensed ‘Master-of-the-Road.’ [Editor’s Note: By
now, you should be smiling!] 😊
I breezed handily through the written exam and then joined
the Pennsylvania State Trooper outside to take my road test. I
recall feeling rather nervous and silently coaxing myself to breathe and
relax. We drove along a simulated highway, a course designed
specifically to test the skills of rookie drivers. It contained
traffic signs, highway markings, S-curves and that much dreaded opportunity for
parallel parking.
I was performing quite well and feeling psychologically
inebriated with overflowing assurance that I had passed my driver’s test and
would receive my official license mere moments hence. Unfortunately, my
optimism created a sense of overconfidence and I failed to completely halt the
vehicle at the final stop sign. Uh-oh!
When the examining trooper informed me of this, I was
totally shocked and outraged at my sheer stupidity! Feeling totally exasperated,
I slammed the automatic gearshift into the park setting and struck the steering
wheel with open palms. The trooper looked over at me and rather
casually stated, “You really did a good job on our test course, and I was going
to pass you in spite of your mistake, but this emotional reaction leads me to
believe you’re not quite ready to get your license.” I was
absolutely dumbfounded and surprised because I had been accustomed to
succeeding, not failing.
The ride home felt very much like a funeral to me; my
sorrow was painful and palpable. Mr. Yartin was at the wheel of the
Driver’s Ed vehicle, and I was seated in the back seat, sandwiched in between
two classmates who had passed their driver’s tests. Surveying my
mood in the rearview mirror, my coach-instructor smiled and said, “Wayne,
there’s always tomorrow.”
For two weeks, nearly all I could think about was my
‘failure problem.’ I desperately needed to redirect my
focus. I needed perspective. Moments before my second
shot at the test, Mr. Yartin looked me in the eye and repeated his words spoken
after my previous failed attempt: “There’s always tomorrow.”
And it was on that glorious, sunny, Friday afternoon in the
month of May, in Greensburg, Pennsylvania, that Wayne Manning Bass passed his
driver’s test with flying colors!
In the words of Celia Luce, “A small trouble is like a
pebble. Hold it too close to your eye and it fills the whole world
and puts everything out of focus. Hold
it at a proper distance and it can be examined and properly
classified. Throw it at your feet and it can be seen in its true
setting, just one more bump on the pathway to life.” In other
words, life happens.
Hindsight is 20/20 vision.
Looking back at my perceived ‘calamity’ at age 16, I realize that I did
not even realize what ‘real’ problems were!
Here’s something terribly important to ponder. Instead of getting all bent-out-of-shape over
everything that comes our way, we should ask God for perspective. Even monumental problems eventually reach resolution
or simply fade from view. When we begin
to see issues and challenges as GOD sees them, we can activate faith in His
Word, which is tantamount to an expression of complete confidence in His plans
for us. Can you recall the last
situation that God got you through?
Well, if He did it back then…He will surely do it again!
Sisters and brothers, be continually blessed, and please
(above all else) MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY TO MEET OUR SOON COMING KING.
Maranatha!
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