FUN OR FULFILLMENT?

FUN OR FULFILLMENT?

Methinks that many of us have been collectively brainwashed.  Of course, there are exceptions to the rule, and you just might be one of them. But MOST of us have become transfixed by a seductive allure and eagerness to embrace things, situations, occasions and people that we consider to be FUN.

Our society conditions us to engage fully in the hot pursuit of ‘fun’ things. In contemporary culture, products are marketed more for their enjoyment quotient than for their inherent value and usefulness.  When we view a car commercial, it seldom emphasizes horsepower or reliability.  Rather, we are sold on its potential to have someone occupying the seat next to us who looks like that gorgeous or handsome model in the advertisement.

In truth, nearly everything is sold or bought on that basis, from vacations to clothing to shoes to beauty products. Our evaluation of their value typically reflects our perception of how close they can carry us to the margins of merriment.

The irony of this is the simple fact that the acquisition of things never satisfies.  Having the first of any product only demands a bigger, better and newer version of the same.  And it’s a must that we own the latest technology innovation, i.e. the newest Apple product – even a computerized watch – which we may not be sure what to do with when we eventually obtain it.

Contrary to popular opinion and societal norms, “life does not consist in the abundance of things [we] possess.” (Jesus Christ ~ Luke 12:15)  Rather, the abundant life is characterized by how much we are willing to share generously of our time, talent and treasure. Personal fulfillment is the product of true faith and firm commitment. It is the intangible result of devotion to others, and it is the polar opposite of unabashed greed, power mongering, property hoarding and selfishness.

We must never become prisoners of ourselves or our surroundings.  While it is never problematic to God that we enjoy certain creature comforts, we must become balanced owners of property, as opposed to being owned by the property itself.

Decades ago in elementary school, I read an original story about a young boy who loved chewing gum. One day, he was offered a piece of gum and happily accepted.  After a time, the child grew tired of the gum, but he discovered that he could not get rid of it no matter how hard he tried.  In short order, it felt very much like that gum was chewing him, instead of him chewing the gum.  What a predicament that was! Can you imagine how tired your mouth might feel and how drained your emotions would be if you had to be ‘chewed’ by your gum day after day after day?

My friend, let's not allow FUN to chew us up!

Consider this.  A long-term marriage might not seem as alluring as a passionate fling, but it is far more fulfilling. Studying the Word might not seem as titillating as the latest novel, but it is far more enlightening. 

Let's resolve to live out our days with the fullness and joy that are brought on by wisdom, balance, consistency, faith, forgiveness and love.  In case we are unable to discern their present value, believe me, someday we will.

Sisters and brothers, be continually blessed, and please (above all else) MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY TO MEET OUR SOON COMING KING. Maranatha!