COMPASSION, THY NAME IS
LOVE
Empathy is the ability to
stand in the shoes of others, to be fully aware of their situations while being
absolutely sensitive to their emotions and needs, to proactively demonstrate sincere and selfless
compassion.
In February 2012, Cory
Weissman led the men’s basketball team of Gettysburg College onto the court for
the last game of the season. Four years
earlier he had suffered a stroke that left him paralyzed on one side. After years of rehab he was able to walk with
a limp, but was still physically incapable of competitive play. Before his stroke he had been a member of the
team and the coach wanted to give him a few seconds on the court as a senior. So Cory was nominated captain and led out the
starting five for what would be his last game at Gettysburg.
Aware of his physical
challenges and struggles, the crowd and the players from both teams greeted
Cory with wild applause. The Gettysburg
coach gave him a few minutes on the court before benching him.
With one minute to go,
Gettysburg was well ahead so the coach sent Cory back onto the court. The
Washington College coach then called time out and instructed his players to
foul Cory Weissman. For those who don’t
know basketball, this was a generous act because it meant Cory would be given
two free shots at the basket.
Cory took his place at the line,
felt the weight of the ball in his hands, lifted it, shot, but missed badly. He had a second shot left. Again he felt the weight of the ball in his
hands, lifted it and shot. This time the
ball flew straight through the hoop, and the crowd broke out in thunderous
applause.
David Wright, Gettysburg’s vice
president for athletics, wrote a letter to the Washington College president:
“Your coach, Rob Nugent, along with his staff and student-athletes, displayed a
measure of compassion that I have never witnessed in over 30 years of
involvement in intercollegiate athletics.
Thank you.”
Sometimes we simply fail to
‘see’ others. Somehow it’s easier to adopt
a deficit model which allows us
to magnify the failures and flaws of our fellows. However, no one should be defined by their ‘life-limp’
or personal challenges. Centuries ago,
the abundant grace and mercy of Christ mobilized the atoning intervention that (thankfully)
looked beyond our faults and addressed our needs. His was compassion personified. His was unconditional and unlimited
love. Today, we strive to emulate His agape. Are you ready?
Sisters and brothers, be continually
blessed, and please (above all else) MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY TO MEET OUR SOON
COMING KING. Maranatha!
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