STANDING IN 'STEAD' OF SOMEONE

STANDING IN ‘STEAD’ OF SOMEONE

Pity is never a positive emotion; empathy is infinitely more practical, positive and productive.

It is so easy to stand on the periphery of someone else’s life-situation and to morph ever so quickly into their judge, jury and verbal executioner.  The human condition is so incredibly complex that, quite candidly, it is patently absurd to assume that we will ever fully apprehend the faults, foibles, failures and fiascoes of others.  Indeed, it is impossible for us (non-divine entities) to do so.

So, we will stop judging and we will start loving.

Unconditional love simply means that your worldview does not have to precisely synch with mine for me to perceive the value that has been generously deposited and endowed by your Creator.

Dysfunctional people, if I may be permitted to term them as such, are persons who are crying out for more time, attention, care, concern, acceptance, and yes, love.  Their inward struggle produces powerful emotions (pain, anxiety, insecurity, fear) which dominate and motivate them to act in ostensibly absurd, conflicted and selfish ways.  Sometimes they offend us, even while their deepest desire is to do otherwise.

What can we do about this?  On my end, I resolve to make stronger efforts to reach out, to understand, to communicate without reciprocal requirements or demands, to emotionally and spiritually stand in the stead of others who are seriously hurting – many of whom have little awareness of the depth of their injuries or malfunctions.

Why am I motivated to do so?  There are at least two reasons.  First, others have understood, embraced and loved me through my life’s follies.  [Note: My errors will not be enumerated here because there is not enough room on this page]!  Secondly, Jesus Christ performed the ultimate act of redemptive love by literally standing in my place and taking on (unconditionally) my humiliation, agony, punishment and death on Calvary’s cross.

Thank You, Jesus!

in honor of him…I will seek to understand and love others, even when they might seem to be closed off, hostile, angry, confused, or indifferent.  I CHOOSE TO LOVE.

Sisters and brothers, be continually blessed, and please (above all else) MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY TO MEET OUR SOON COMING KING.  Maranatha!