TO BE OR NOT TO BE?
There was a time in
life when I considered the opinions and assessments of others to be
intrinsically indispensable to my value and identity. Such thinking is a
potential portal to superficiality and/or hypocrisy. Because whenever we
perceive and process the views of others as central to our own status in life,
we are prone to embracing decisions and choices that are self-serving or
opportunistic.
Over the years, I
have radically altered my personal perspective. Admittedly, it is quite
pleasant to be positively thought of by others, but the acceptance of others is
not mission critical to real success.
What is most
important in life is HEAVEN’S
EVALUATION of our conduct and character.
REPUTATION is who PEOPLE ‘think’ we are. CHARACTER is who GOD ‘knows’ we are.
This calls to mind Reuben
Gonzales, who was a leading racquetball player. In his first professional
tournament, Gonzales reached the finals. He held match point in the fifth
and final game when he made a terrific ‘kill shot’ into the corner to win the
tournament. When the ball was pronounced “good” by the officials, his
family and friends got ready to congratulate their new champion. However,
Gonzales turned around and declared that his shot had hit the floor just before
it reached the wall.
This admission
caused him to lose the serve, and his opponent went on to win both the match
and tournament.
The next issue of
“National Racquetball Magazine” featured Gonzales on its cover. Everyone
wanted to know why Gonzales had done it. Why would a professional
sportsman disqualify himself after being declared the winner of the championship
match?
Gonzales’ reply was
simple: “It was the only thing I could do to maintain my integrity.”
INTEGRITY is tantamount to WHOLENESS.
In other words, integrity is who we are in the dark. It’s the decisions
we make, the convictions we carry and the activities we engage when we are out
of the spotlight and away from the observations of others.
These days, my
primary goal is loving, learning and living from God’s point of view, and it’s
my life’s vision statement. As such, I
simply want to make God smile. And He delights in simple submission to
the terms of our covenant relationship. Integrity. In the end, it’s ALL that really matters.
Sisters and
brothers, be continually blessed and please (above all else) MAKE SURE YOU ARE
READY TO MEET YOUR SOON COMING KING.
Maranatha!
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